One of Jesus great examples to us, is that of loving & serving those who were unlovely & unworthy. He did for them according to their need, not their actions or reactions. Christ's Spirit in us, wants us to grow into this same grace.

Pray daily that your kindness & service not be based on what others do or have done (reactionary). Strive to attach no conditions to your Christian duties (unconditional), so the hurting world can experience Christ through you.